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⁠  ⁠⁠Healthy Conversation for Creative Leaders Program

Part I - First Aid for Conversation Catastrophes - Three modules, three weeks - $97

Strengthen your emotional intelligence and expand your conflict resolution skills. Use the Enneagram, a simple, dynamic pattern that can help you deal with the tensions of being your best self when others are making it difficult.

Phone calls - Second Tuesday of the month January - June at 3 pm or 6 pm PST; or the last three Wednesdays of April and May, at 3 pm or 6 pm PST

Use the Nine Arts of Healthy Conversation™ to make space for preparation, reflection, inspiration, creation, and evaluation. Work with others to celebrate success, learn from mistakes, and tap into the group’s collective wisdom.

Phone calls - Third Tuesday of the month January through May and August through November at 3 pm or 6 pm PST

Learn why conversations implode, and what you can do differently with three tools, three skills, and the Nine Arts of Healthy Conversation™.

Phone calls - Second Tuesday of the month September - November, at 3 pm or 6 pm PST; or the last three Wednesdays of March, at 3 pm or 6 pm PST

Part II - Putting Your Super Power to Work - Six modules, six months - $217

Part III – The P.R.I.C.E. of Unlimited Living – One hour small group coaching, nine months -$317

More about the Program

You’re doing great work in the world and still getting blindsided by sticky conversations. Your skills work sometimes, but not others. It’s so frustrating! You need a simple way to understand the complexity of relationships, so that you can target each new situation that comes up, design a unique plan of action, and get support for the process. I’ve helped thousands respond to stressful circumstances calmly and confidently, and want to help you too.

Each part of this program covers these topics in deepening layers:

  • The Nine Arts of Healthy Conversation™ and the dangers of unhealthy interactions

  • The power of healthy responses to unhealthy situations

  • The secrets to diagnosing and curing conversation catastrophes

  • The myth of individuality and how it is sabotaging your community

  • The link between healthy conversations, healthy relationships, conflict resolution, and spiritual growth

Create a Climate of Healthy Conversation at Work and at Home

Business packages include a before and after survey with a written report, an interactive speech, Healthy Conversations for Creative Leaders Program, and teacher training.

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Click here to ask for a free 20 minute discovery session so that we can talk about which program or package will support you.

Student Support Begins with Enrollment.

Parts I, II, and III include:

  • Private Facebook Group

  • Weekly Q & A Emails

Part II includes a partnering option.


Confidentiality is essential to creating a safe space to learn about healthy conversations. Guidelines will be taught on the first call, and referred to in each module. Personal sharing on calls will NOT be recorded.

Our Promise and Commitment

Enrollment is transferable to another student or another class within the year. Healthy relationships include unforeseen circumstances and mess-ups.  Let us know, and we’ll work with you to find a solution we can all feel good about.

Click here to sign up for the program.

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Custom packages can be designed just for you at $200 an hour.

Non-profit packages include the Healthy Conversations for Creative Leaders Program Parts I and II and teacher training.

To purchase a custom package, contact Reba to determine the fee for your desired package.

Once she has confirmed a payment amount with you, click the "Add to Cart" button below. That will take you to your "shopping cart." You'll see a line item for "Custom Package" with a price of $20.

Under the heading "Quantity," choose a multiple of $20 that is equal to your custom package fee. For example, if your custom package is $260, change the quantity to "13" at checkout.

Part I is for people who are new to healthy conversations and want relief from awkward discussions. It covers the introduction and chapters 1, 2, 3, & 6 of my e-book, Stop Talking and Breathe: How To Be Your Best in Any Conversation.

Part II is for people who want to evaluate why personality matters, why conversations go bad and what they have the power to change. It covers chapters 4, 5, 7, 8, 9, and the conclusion of Stop Talking and Breathe: How To be Your Best in Any Conversation.

Part III is a mastermind group for those who want to expand their impact on the world around them through healthy conversation. It is a more profound study of all of the concepts in Stop Talking and Breathe: How To Be Your Best in Any Conversation.

Part I and II are made up of modules. Each module includes 45 minutes of instruction and 45 minutes of practice on a conference call, along with an hour of preparation work before each call. Required reading - Stop Talking and Breathe: How To Be Your Best in Any Conversation.


Purchase a Custom Package


Private classes and coaching are available in packages of 2 1/2 hours - $260

Find more satisfaction and less frustration.

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Conversation Strategies


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